You asked for it, so here goes – the mega-post of 80 dirty talk examples and ideas of what to say when you’re talking dirty, so that your man thinks about you all the time.
He’ll be so attracted to you and distracted by your steamy words that he won’t be looking at other women, won’t be able to wait to get home from work to see you, will be anxiously awaiting your next call or text, and won’t be able to get you out of his mind.
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In this short post, I want to tackle the question of – how to talk dirty to a guy. Broadly, just a guy – not necessarily your husband or your boyfriend yet, but someone you’ve met. Someone you talk to, or maybe have been intimate with.
You are seriously interested in this person and want to keep them interested in you……hooked on your every word…..coming back for more.
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Three Case Studies on Dirty Talk and Texts:What Worked and What Didn’t
It is commonly known that different tactics and methods work in different ways and have different effects of everyone. When trying to figure out the best tactics to initiate a session of dirty talk or dirty texting, you want to make sure that you personalize the experience to your relationship. Whether you are a beginner or a more seasoned dirty talker, it takes some practice and consideration. Here are some stories of what worked and what didn’t work for different women.
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How To Talk Dirty Blog is launching a new feature – once a week we’ll be picking a couple of reader questions to answer on the blog. If you have a question, post it as a comment on this post or email it to howtotalkdirtyblog@gmail.com. We’ll do our best to answer every question that’s left for us, either in this column or via email.
One of our awesome readers left us a question:
My boyfriend really wants me to go into depth talking dirty to him and seems to need this in order to finish-I am at a total loss of what to say because the usual does not work with him. I’m not sure what hes looking for and its very frustrating so I’ve just been giving up lately. How do I figure out what he wants and how to do it? I”m thinking maybe we are not compatible in the bedroom-everything is fine when he is pleasing me but when its his turn I am usually exhausted and out of ideas and sexy talk. 
Any suggestions?
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“In a recent survey, Cosmo found that over 50% of men are turned on by moans and other ‘sexual sounds.”
So ladies, when you’re thinking about how to turn up the heat and thinking of all the complex stuff you need to say to introduce a little dirty talk, stop and consider:
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So, ladies, if you’ve landed here some experience or person in your life has brought you to the question: How do I talk dirty to a guy?
More specifically, not just “a guy” but “your guy.”
You might be asking why this is relevant, but the truth is that it is totally relevant, in two specific ways:
- It makes you want to work hard to get your dirty talk just right.
- It might make you feel more embarrassed or that you have more at stake if you “do it wrong.”
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Alright, gentlemen. You’ve got a hot girl in mind, your smart phone in hand, and you’re wondering exactly how to make it happen: you’re wondering how to flirt with a girl over text.
Before we get started, let me be really upfront – this is written from a girl’s perspective. I will tell you exactly what works, what doesn’t, and the kinds of signals to give depending on the message that you want to send.
I’m going to assume you’ve got a girl in mind, and you’ve got her number. If not, you should check out these guys. If so, keep reading.
So a few things upfront: Read more →